It is still a painful conversation to have. People get defensive and/or angry, barring further dialogue and possibly taking a step back instead of forward.
Identifying races, similar to identifying religions, is a worn out method of understanding the self. Admittedly, having some context as to why am individual behaves in a certain way is advised but beyond individuation, the unimagined exists.
How do young coloured and black people feel about racism?
Conflict between Black and Coloured South Africans – Cape Town – http://wp.me/p6wl8A-1J